When we seek love from the start, can we ever foresee the sadness in the future?
That is the thing about falling in love, we hide our bad side from one another, hoping the other party does not see it. In the end, our true self will show and end up hurting each other. Why in the first place hide our flaws and end up having to tolerate one another?
Now we do know why love is blind.
I did not want this to happen. I know I am not the sweet guy who will always show up after a phone call, who does romantic stuff constantly and reply messages immediately. I force myself not to be in a honeymoon period, and doing things that I know I will not do in the future. I think it is a matter of setting expectations.
So in the end, what are we truly seeking, a future or just love?
